I participate in a middle-age reenactment group, and we do rather full contact fighting. This girl a lot of us know decided she'd join us, which is cool in concept, but since it's full contact, I feel a little awkward with the prospect of hitting her with even a PVC-core boffer sword. I'm very...old-fashioned, in that regard. She's not like... the stereotypical gym teacher type of woman, either-- she's quite feminine-- so it's not easy to look at her as another one of the guys, if that makes sense. Anyone have any brilliant ideas for how to approach this?