I haven't done any war gaming in ages, painting or modeling; but I still enjoy the topic and pick up the books to stay current.
I have a busy job at a university which is just humming along, I'm in grad school (as is my wife), and we have a 3 year old. Time is a previous commodity in our house.
When I have time usually it's spent on smaller increments than miniatures work allows, reading or Xbox/Titanfall/etc.