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post #11 of 25 (permalink) Old 10-09-09, 04:33 PM
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Just leave her and if she lived with you put her stuff on the doorstep and let her get it herself.
Forget that, sell her stuff; if your going to spend your time moving it around then you might as well get something for it.

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Forget that, sell her stuff; if your going to spend your time moving it around then you might as well get something for it.
Last time I did that I got sued!
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I would suggest against selling/destroying her items as that opens a whole can of legal worms. Simply inform her to remove the items and get on with your life.

Blanket statements involving all anything (women, men, races, etc) are a slipery slope as well since there are women who do follow these forums that could take offense to such things.

Remember, this was not a solo act and unless your best friend forced himself upon her (which I am guessing/hoping is not the case here). The blame rests just as much on HIS shoulders as it does hers. Poor choices on both their parts.
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I've said it before and I'll say it again.

Buy a beartrap. How will it help in retrospect? Use your imagination. I'm sure you can think of something.

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I've said it before and I'll say it again.

Buy a beartrap. How will it help in retrospect? Use your imagination. I'm sure you can think of something.
That's going in the sig!

On a more on topic note, that really sucks man. But if she and he could actually do that behind the back, they aren't really your friends. Screw 'em.


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Euphrati is pretty much smack bang, give her her stuff back, dont sell destroy steal whatever you can think off to get back, remember, she will comeback with the law on her side.

as for everyone saying chicks are sluts whores whatever how about you open your eyes, the amount of times i get to watch a female friend mope around crying after she learns her bf cheated on her is a joke, its not a one way street, anybody can do it so limiting it as chicks are the only ones is a good way to annoy me

you didnt say much on what happened or who did what ect so im going to assume it was consented on both ends, which if i was you forget them, they obviously dont care about you, that said if they are guenily sorry or theres a misunderstanding such as youve heard a rumor and taken it as true you guys can still be friends, i know people that have cheated and are still friends with the ex, it just depends on how much you care for them, if it was casual then it wouldn't be as hard if you cared deeply for her.

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alright, general opinion seems to be more information is needed, i dont know the whole story really, but she just informed me of this last night, nearly 3 months after the actual incident, and apparently i was the only one who didnt hear my gf was a whore, making my evening so much fun, the girl told me, not my friend, friend has heard that i heard though i do believe, and refuses to answer my calls and has disappeared somewhat from the radar. He apparently was the one to make the move, and she was upset with me that day (cuz i was playin warhammerz with friends ) and he took advantage of this fact, and bang bang, they did it, and she just never told me.

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What I'd do?


Seriously though, she's probably not worth any effort. Get drunk, fall down a lot, find a rebound girl, and move on. You might luck out, I married my "rebound girl" a few years later.

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i like that answer hahaha

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I can't understand where everyone else is comming from, except Mr. Beertap, because a beertap can solve 99% of life's problems

Dude, check this out:

You're girlfriend is a whore. Face it and accept it. Emotionally detach yourself from her, but keep her around. Now that she told you about this (assuming there's at least an ounce of humanity in her) she will feel pretty shitty. Use this to your advantage.

You could easily work this into a situtation where, for a short while, you can have all the bedroom shenanigans you want because she feels so bad. When you start to feel like she's getting back to normal, dump her ass. That way, not only have you not done anything illegal, but you've totally won.

Also, to hell with your "best friend." He violated the only absolutely inviolate rule of best friendship; bros before hoes.


On a side note: You turned down sex for Warhammer? I'm assuming she didn't just come out and proposition you, considering the choice you made lol.

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