I second your sentiments, I stumbled on Heresy looking for a place to get some tactics help, and I've got all that and more, its a lovely place with a lovely bunch of players, It really makes 40k for me.
Specially since quite a few of the players near me are entirely in it to break the game any way they can to get a cheap victory. This place really puts the spirit of the hobby back in for me.
I'm all for playing this game, but you don't have to be a dick about it.
~Someday I'll play 7th Edition ~
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