Join Date: Aug 2013
Location: Western Massachusetts, USA
Guitar player in my band moved in with his gf of 6 weeks (stupid as shit, right?) last fall.
All was well for like, a month, but evidently, she has some sort of... negetive tendencies, and it seems there is something going on. he's pretty vague about it. I've been missing a lot of practices lately due to this and that, but he seems to always be very late when we meet, leaves early, checks his phone a LOT. Has made a few comments like "she's always mad at me" and "home has become a nightmare", among a few other stories to confirm that she seems irrational.
I've requested we meet up on weekdays so we can squeeze in some more practice time beyond the two fucking hours we manage on Sundays. (I'm there by 1, he shows up at 2:30, and it's getting later each week, which is making me think she's being pushy about when he leaves.) He gave me a resounding no, weekends only. Fair enough.
He's stopped answering texts, when we used to text constantly, like fucking little girls. Now, nothing, even when I text him if he's ok.
He showed up to practice last week looking like he hadn't slept all week, with part of his head shaved. He's had hair down to his ass since I met the dude almost a decade ago, no way did he just shave a chunk of the back of his head.
It's getting... fucking weird.