Join Date: May 2010
Location: Folkestone Kent UK
Gay woman here, yes i have kids but at my age it just was not the thing to do and come out and say u know what i prefer my own sex, i was bullied enough at school because of my ways, if i came out in 1985 and said you know what i am gay it would have been worse then what it already was.
Surprisingly my kids dad was understanding about it all and we remained friends until the day he passed away, my dads initial reaction was thank god for that thought you were going to tell me you were pregnant again, my father and stepmother and even my dads family were all great about it...my mothers side of the family well, least said the better, i could easily say if i knew now what i didnt know then but unfortunatly it was not the done thing and with a violent younger brother and mother who were so homophobic it was unreal..for the sake of sanity and bruises it was better to just play at something i was not comfortable with. You need any advice or just wanna vent IM me, more than welcome