Thanks NecronCowboy that helps a lot but what I'm mostly asking is what is a good combo of aspect warriors will allow me to handle the most situations with minimal skill (I realize that sound kinda skeevy but I figured I might as well ask)
I think that's a question you should set out to answer for yourself. You would be way better off understanding what and why you have what you have.
Basically your dire avengers are cheap and good, your fast attack aspects are good up close, and your support aspects are good at a distance.
What I've always loved about the Eldar aspects is how powerful they are if you put them in the position they are meant to be in.