so no matter what I bring, she will just write a list to counter it
Why not show up with a list and not tell her what you're going to play
, only the points level? In my gaming group we never share lists until we're about to deploy. If someone wants to use a Knight or D weapons out the ass they'll typically say it pre-game so that their opponent will stand a chance, but list tailoring as the game is starting? Forget that.
I'd say my thoughts on your list but it doesn't seem like it will make a difference against this opponent.