Originally Posted by Jace of Ultramar
Out of curiosity, should I feel remorseful that today would have been my 4th wedding anniversary, were I still married?
Melissa brought it up this morning while I was getting ready for work and she was drinking her coffee. In all honesty, I didn't even realize it would have been today had she not brought it up.
Genuinely, I couldn't care less if I tried.
I think you have the right attitude - If you were remorseful, you would be living in the past at this point. It's better to focus on the good in your life right now and see those achievements, than regretting the past.
Don't doubt yourself on this one - Keep going straight. You seem to be in a good place right now, so why let something as a non-existent wedding anniversary let you down?