Your collection, do with it what you will. Personally, I'd like to see that army (pics please) and would really like to see some pics of the apoc game.
Everyone has a different idea if it's a dick move or not. For me, it's all in how you play. Not what you play. Like anyone else, I don't like to lose. That being said, I do have to admit that some of the greatest games I had, I lost. I've also been very fortunate to have opponents who are skilled, a blast to play against, or both.